If you say GOD loves us all, but exclude the Christian because their doctrine does not agree with your doctrine; you are not a lover like GOD.
Just like saying you are tolerant of everyone but never extend those conditions to the Christian because he believes in judgement, you are not tolerant.
That’s the catch-22 that happens when we make it up as we go along. That’s what happens when we decide we can rewrite the story, because GOD got it wrong, and he doesn’t exist anyway.
This behavior is what provides the greatest evidence against our ability to be a god. But it is also the most profound way we prove that GOD loves us, still hates sin, and yet offers redemption. Take it or leave it, you get to choose. But take the consequence as well.